This was the first time Williams had returned to the competition in decades.
Williams has had such an amazing A-list career as an actor and singer racking up plenty of Grammy, Emmy, and Tony award nominations without the help of a crown on her head it’s easy to forget why the Miss America organization forced Williams to resign all those years ago.
Penthouse magazine published the pics, without her permission, in its September issue that year. And the Miss America organization reportedly pressured Williams into relinquishing her crown just seven weeks before the end of her reign.
It’s funny how an organization that emphasizes women’s looks and still factors in a swimsuit competition ended up shaming one of its competitors for expressing her sexuality offstage…
Of course, the resignation was a whole bunch of bull. Sometimes, especially when it comes to women’s sexuality, society has a tendency to blame those who’ve been wronged instead of blaming those who actually did the wronging.
victim-blaming, and it’s all too common. Williams should not have been pressured to resign because a magazine made the decision to publish unauthorized, private photos of her. But the Miss America organization blamed her instead of supporting her and criticizing Penthouse for its poor editorial choice.
With Williams at Haskell’s side on stage, he apologized on behalf of the Miss America organization for how it treated her all those years ago:
You have lived your life in grace and dignity and never was it more evident than during the events of 1984 when you resigned. Though none of us currently in the organization were involved then, on behalf of today’s organization, I want to apologize to you and to your mother, Miss Helen Williams.
I want to apologize for anything that was said or done that made you feel any less than the Miss America you are and the Miss America you always will be.”
After 31 years, the Miss America organization finally acknowledged that it treated its 1983 winner like garbage.
Instead of blaming rapists, state agencies not-so-subtly blame women for drinking too much. Instead of teaching teenage boys to respect their female classmates, schools kick girls out of dances for wearing dresses that may cause “impure thoughts.” And instead of blaming the hackers who shared private photographs of celebrities like Kim Kardashian and Jennifer Lawrence, male celebrities (and others) felt the need to advise Kim K. and JLaw they shouldn’t have taken the pictures in the first place.
If your friend’s house got robbed and the thief stole an expensive TV, would you say, “Well, you knew thieves exist. You probably shouldn’t have bought an expensive TV”?
No, you‘d blame the idiot who stole their television.
So why blame Williams for a magazine’s unethical decision?
The apology was witnessed by about
7 million people last night. Hopefully the message was loud and clear: We shouldn’t fault victims for the actions of those who wrong them.
Watch footage from Haskell’s apology below: